My friend Al told me he was struggling with telling his four-year-old daughter about Santa Claus. “It’s the only lie I’ve ever told her,” he said. I too have a four-year-old daughter and am currently in the thick of Santa Fever at my house, where we’ve been lauding Père Noël for the last three Christmases. He’s a legend I’m honored to propagate.
I study legends for a living. Monsters, ghosts, extraterrestrials, and ancient mysteries swirl around me like smoke from a smoldering campfire. If there’s one thing that’s certain: it’s that all legends have a solid foundation in someone’s reality. From there the story grows and evolves; it becomes part of a collective human experience. Legends are real. The point can’t be argued.
When I say “Bigfoot,” an image is instantly conjured in your mind. You no doubt picture a tall, hairy, upright-walking creature who lurks in the forest. There are Halloween costumes that feature this biped, he even shills beef jerky in TV commercials. Can there be any doubt as to the veracity of this legend? Whether there is an actual ape-like creature wandering the forests of America can be debated forever. But the legend itself cannot.
Belief makes reality.
The only reason that $20 bill in your pocket is worth more than the $1 bill is belief. Faith. We believe our government will back up these bank notes so they’re worth something. If we collectively lose that belief, our monetary system will collapse.
Of all the legends in America, there can be none as prominent, or as real, as that of St. Nick. If I were to walk into a crowded restaurant anywhere in the United States holding an image of a big man with white hair and a white beard wearing a red suit and asked each diner, “Who is this?” I would have trouble finding a single person who wouldn’t answer, “Santa Claus.”
Before there was the hoopla, the guy in the red suit at the mall, the shopping frenzy, the Christmas trees, and the holiday lights, there was a man—a regular man who was the foundation of something extraordinary.
Nicholas lived in the land of Myra (which is modern-day Turkey) around 300 A.D. He was the only child of a wealthy family and was orphaned at a young age. The boy grew up in a monastery and entered priesthood by age 17. A true philanthropist, and inspired by a person named Jesus who lived long ago, Nicholas gave away his wealth throughout his life. He left gifts for children in their shoes, he was known to toss small sacks of gold through open windows, and to lavish affection upon the poor.
The Catholic Church canonized him shortly after his death, making him St. Nicholas. A real person inspired Catholics to make him into a saint. When the Church established Christmas on December 25th to coincide near the Pagan holiday of Yule, incorporating Nicholas and his spirit of generosity into the Christmas season was a natural fit for the Church. The legend of that saint grew, evolved, and spread through a natural folklore process.
Over the centuries, Nicholas’s story was passed around, he was copy-catted by others who took joy in giving away money and toys to poor children. As the centuries passed, his legend grew to mythic proportions and took on supernatural attributes.
The Dutch people called this figure “Sinter Klaas,” and brought him over to New York when they arrived in the seventeenth century. They celebrated this saint on December 5th or 6th (depending on what country you lived in). Washington Irving wrote about this figure in his History of New York where he described the arrival of the Saint on horseback, but it was a poem penned by Clement Clarke Moore in 1823 that defined Santa Claus, his sled, the reindeer, what he looks like, and his chimney-arrival behavior. That poem is called “A Visit from St. Nicholas,” better known as “The Night Before Christmas.”
In 1860 a Harper’s magazine illustrator named Thomas Nast depicted Santa as a big round man who had a workshop at the North Pole and a list of all the good and bad children. In 1931 the Coca Cola Company made the figure of Santa in a red suit with white fur trim a cultural icon as part of their advertising campaign.
The first time a child meets Santa Claus, it’s like meeting the world’s biggest celebrity. Most of us never forget the racing heartbeats, the giddy excitement, or maybe even the fear of meeting this omniscient, supernatural being who can either make your dreams come true by laying your most desired toy under the Christmas tree, or crush you with lumps of coal and sticks in your stocking.
As we get older, our ideas of Santa morph and evolve until many of us actually become Father Christmas—either at the office holiday party or when we have children of our own. The Santa experience offers genuine miracles on both sides of the fluffy white beard in a world where most mysteries are dying off at an alarming rate.
Since Santa went mainstream in the nineteenth century, he’s has been deified, lampooned, imitated, commercialized, scorned, and overexposed. But through all the murk and mess, Santa’s magic still shines through like Rudolph’s nose through the fiercest blizzard. We created Santa. All of us. Each Christmas he’s born again. We teach our own children about Santa because, even if only for the first few years, it’s right to believe in magic.
From the children’s perspective, it’s so wonderfully simple: On December 24th, before they go to bed they leave milk and cookies out for Santa. They glance at the empty space under the Christmas tree, and run off to try and sleep; giddy with anticipation. The next morning there is tangible evidence of the supernatural visitation: The cookies are mostly eaten, the milk is mostly drunk, and behold the wrapped presents under the tree!
I don’t care if you’re Christian or not. I’m a paranormal guy. I believe in possession. In Judaism there’s the concept of the “Dybbuk,” which is a type of spirit possession. This possession can be a bad thing: like if you’re inclined to drink too much or do drugs, a spirit that did that in life may cling to you and push you over the edge; or it can be a good thing: you’re trying to get healthy and exercise and a spirit who did that in life may be drawn to you to help. We get possessed by good ideas, gut instincts, and inspiration all of the time. We also get inspired by great legends… like Santa Claus.
Santa’s legend and story has spread throughout the world. Each Christmas we get inspired… nay, possessed by this good spirit. I’m thrilled my daughter is eagerly awaiting St. Nick visiting our house in a few weeks. I want her to know the magic this figure holds.
By carrying on these traditions which were based on a real man, I become a part of the legend. I write myself into the story. I write my daughter into the story in the hopes that one day she too will become possessed by the spirit of Christmas. That she will be reminded to behave because someone is out there watching, that she will feel the urge to give to charities a little more, that she will know there’s still magic in the world.
Believe in Santa, Al. His legend is real. He’s real. He’s you. He’s me. He’s a bit of all of us. And next year he’ll be back, because we’ll never stop needing him.
16 thoughts on “Santa is a Legend Not a Lie”
Great article! For those out there that donâ€™t believe heâ€™s not real to them but to those of us who believe in the Christmas spirit he will never die.
LOVE this and I’m sharing. For the believer, the non-believer and those who term the belief “a lie”. And because my eight year old great niece told me last night that Santa wasn’t real – a little sadness there. Wish I had had this to read to her then, but I will at Christmas. Great article, you Master Legend Tripper, you!!! Merry Christmas to you and your family!
I am so proud of you.. for beleiving and passing along our family traditions and for becoming part of Sophies legend. Merry Christmas!!!
Jeff your writings inspire me I love this article wow I am part of a legend that’s so cool me a part of a legend. I love how u say santa is u its me its in all of us how true. Your article pretty much clearifies that magical feeling I get every year. My boys r teens my daughter is 8 and she still belives although she asks I tell her yes the parents help cuz even santa needs help and she will say can he really see what I am doing and I say yep and technically I am not lying cuz I do c her.anyways thanks 4 that beautiful piece love ur insight again u r a very gifted paranormal oddball.lol thanks 4 all u do. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO U & YOUR WIFE AND OF COURSE SOPHIE.
Lovely article but I would also like to tell a story about who Santa is and isn’t. A young 15 year old African American girl who had been raised (quite well I must add) by a single mom once told me that when she was young her mother did not tell her that Santa would be bringing her gifts. She explained that her mother did not want her to believe that all the wonderful toys came from some “old white guy” she wanted her to know that the toys came from her hardworking, self sacrificing mom. That story will always stay with me.
Thanks for writing this Jeff. Merry Christmas to you anf yours.
You’re not part of a legend, you’re part of a conspiracy.
I believe in legends. Legends are about the posibility of things existing. Perhaps ghosts exist, perhaps Bigfoot exists, perhaps there is an afterlife. But do you think that there could be a Santa Claus? No.
A lie is when you know full well that such a being absolutely does not exist, and you tell your son or daughter (who 100% trusts you) that he does.
No wonder people compare God to Santa Claus or the Tooth fairy. Are we really nurturing a sense of magic and wonder in people only to turn them into sceptics when they grow older?
in Japan they say we can be lived-through by others, the absent carpenter for example, is lived-through by us when we use stairs they had made so long ago; when a buddhist monk ‘thanks’ the stairs, they are not being mystical, they are being quite literal.
Nicholas of Myra lives, and he can visit all those many in a single night, and yes, it is magic 🙂
I believe that it’s the Spirit of Santa that lives inside all of us! Mery Christmas and Happy New Yer to you all!
I am proud to be a part of a “Legend Trip” every year in December, and proud to call you friend! Keep it up Mr. Belanger!!
I love that story about the African woman…yes, i also have probs telling my daughter about santa as i hate lying to her and giving into the group mind. However i can see it as a pathway for her to hopefully be able to also see Jesus and God as superstition when she gets older.
Jeff, I absolutely love this article, and your true folklore perspective and take on all this. Wonderful, thank you.
Great write , Jeff! Being passionate about all of mankind’s collective spiritual heritage, i loved it! Its a perfect confluence of the mystic being explained in a very modern idiom.Thank you.:)
I have and always will believe in Santa Clause, and I’m 51 years young. This article is delightful. I look forward to reading more of your work. Merry Christmas Jeff!
As a Dutch person I’d like to say that this is a very good article. Though not only we celebrate Sinter Klaas on the 5th/6th.
Most of Europe does so and sometimes the date varies. (Palestine: 19th) The Americans have placed the date to December 24th/25th. Also not only Sinter Klaas is the inspiration for the American Santa. Pretty sure your British ancestors added Father Christmas and some other Sint Nick versions in there too. Everything ultimately comes back to Wotan or Odin for you guys. 🙂